“Who we are” is what ooozes out of us when we’re not so conscious of ourselves – our ebbs and flows of personal energy and connectivity, our sparking capacity, volume, velocity – the composites of presence and feeling within and across moments – whether we’re “thinking” more, or just “being” more.
This is mostly how we perceive ourselves and one another and collectively.
What makes us a better “life partner” or “nesting companion” or “intentional family” or “community” or “team” is how we meld and flow and move together naturally, organically, and in our senses of energy across various modes of automatic consciousness.
Not so much our beliefs or opinions about things, or even our values, which change continuously with the fates of moments and winds time, with our moods and thoughts, and with our surroundings and circumstances.
